Kenneth Lonergan Quotes

Teenagers all think their life is a movie. If you break up with someone or you have a fight, you walk around with movie scores playing in your head. You sort of see yourself suffering as you're suffering. There's a lot of melodrama attached to the real events of your life.

- Kenneth Lonergan

Adolescents show off. That's another way of wanting to connect with people. It's not an aspect of human behavior that we generally consider to be very admirable, but it is, in some way, a means of connecting with someone else and not being alone.

- Kenneth Lonergan

I remember yelling at my mother one time, horribly. I was in tenth grade or something like that, and I hadn't done something, and she misunderstood because my stepfather told her something that was wrong that I hadn't done.

- Kenneth Lonergan

You can shoot a film in New York without seeing the Empire State Building. Or Starbucks... although the latter is much less realistic.

- Kenneth Lonergan

Sometimes films have no rehearsals - you don't have real rehearsals on the set because the day is so dominated by the schedule.

- Kenneth Lonergan

When I walk onto a film set, I become frightened and nervous. There's all this equipment, all these people, and most of them do things you don't know how to do. I didn't come from a film background.

- Kenneth Lonergan

There's a lot of pressure on a film set that's more immediate than the pressure in the theater where you're nervous about what's going to happen next week.

- Kenneth Lonergan

I wrote a play once called 'Lobby Hero,' which I thought turned out very well, but there's no final version of it. I published the one we produced, but there are seven other versions with different variations sitting in my desk at home.

- Kenneth Lonergan

I think 'Manchester' is really about grieving and trying to get on after something terrible has happened to an adult, and a whole life being destroyed, and then, what are the forces that keep him involved with the people he loves? They love him, and they won't let him go.

- Kenneth Lonergan

There's something about the impact of a big screen that means something to me, even though I realize almost every film is fated to be seen for a year in theaters, and then forever after on television.

- Kenneth Lonergan

Many movies about people recovering, moving on, and redeeming themselves are really wonderful and inspiring. But I think the more sentimental ones that are less good make me feel isolated - like, if you can't pull yourself up by your bootstraps like the guys in the movies, there is something wrong with you. That's a shame.

- Kenneth Lonergan

The creative process on 'Margaret' was incredibly satisfying. I loved the cast; I had a great time writing the script. I liked making the movie. Believe it or not, I actually like editing the movie. It was all the rest of it that was such a nightmare.

- Kenneth Lonergan

I do a lot of improvising when I'm writing, and I work very hard on the scripts... they are written very much in an actor-friendly way.

- Kenneth Lonergan

I'm always struck when I go somewhere I've never been before, especially if it's in my home town, by just how different the atmosphere can be, and how disorienting it can be - especially if there's any kind of trouble.

- Kenneth Lonergan

Little kids grow up discovering the world that's shown to them and then when you become a teenager, it kind of shrinks a little bit. I think when you get past that point, one of the important things is that you see there is more to the world than yourself.

- Kenneth Lonergan

I remember the kind of teenager I was, the kind of teenager I wanted to be, and then the kind of teenagers that were all around me. Life is lived on such a big scale in those years - and such an embarrassing one as well.

- Kenneth Lonergan

You discover two things when you're a teenager. One, that your parents are not the idols that you thought they were when you were growing up, if you had nice parents. And two, that you have power over them, and you can upset them and confront them and attack them.

- Kenneth Lonergan

I feel like if you can describe something fully and accurately, then people will be able to see it themselves - they don't need be told what to.

- Kenneth Lonergan

A really good comedy, I think, is played as if it was real, and it's the circumstances that make it amusing. And I think that the - the inverse or the reverse is true for drama.

- Kenneth Lonergan

I actually think storyboards are great. I don't draw well enough to do them myself. I've only used storyboards a couple of times. We used two storyboards in 'Margaret': one for the bus accident and for the opera sequence at the end.

- Kenneth Lonergan

'You Can Count On Me' took 20 days to shoot, and we had 50 days to shoot 'Margaret.'

- Kenneth Lonergan

'Margaret' as a creative entity is something that I'm very happy and proud of. But 'Margaret' as a professional experience was a nightmare until it was rescued by critics and people who liked it.

- Kenneth Lonergan

Very often what will happen between actors is that they'll develop kind of a ghost relationship in real life that reflects their relationship on screen or in the play that they're doing. In fact, I'd say that happens almost every time. I don't know why that happens, but it seems very common.

- Kenneth Lonergan

Actors are very demanding because they have nowhere to hide. If I write a scene, it doesn't turn out very well, I don't ever have to show it to anyone; when you turn the camera on, or when you walk on stage, they have to feel like what's happening is real.

- Kenneth Lonergan

I can remember when I was 24, and I broke up with my first serious girlfriend for the first time. She was a very nice person, but she had a little bit of a tendency toward melodrama... Her response was to take the key to my apartment off of her key chain and hand it back to me.

- Kenneth Lonergan

I know there are some actors who won't switch their accents off when they're on set and like to be called by their character's names. That works for them, and that's great.

- Kenneth Lonergan

I was nearly a teen-ager before I stopped assuming that everyone I met was Jewish.

- Kenneth Lonergan

To me, 'director's cut' means that what was released before was somebody else's cut. That, to me, always implies that what was released wasn't what the director wanted.

- Kenneth Lonergan

Truthfully, and I don't mean to sound naive, but I don't know that much about the film business.

- Kenneth Lonergan

The really funny comedies to me are always the ones that are played the straightest or given the most emotional content. And when people start making faces and setting things up and commenting and winking at you, I don't find that to be very funny.

- Kenneth Lonergan

I've just always been interested in alter-naturalism and seeing if you can make real life interesting enough to be dramatic without enhancing it. Like, could you make a movie or write a play in which there's no compression of time, there's no enhanced event, it's just real life?

- Kenneth Lonergan

I love accents, I love listening to people talk, I like to try to emulate it as accurately as I can.

- Kenneth Lonergan

I grew up going to the movies, not watching them on television, so I'm still a bit resistant to TV as a medium.

- Kenneth Lonergan

There are some situations in life that are simply not funny, and there's nothing funny about them, but they're rare, and they don't last all that long.

- Kenneth Lonergan

My personal pride is not strong enough to make me brave. But I don't know why I equate being brave with fighting.

- Kenneth Lonergan

I love 'Close Encounters of the Third Kind.'

- Kenneth Lonergan

There are so many details in a movie that it's amazing how much work you'll do to change what adds up to not that much material.

- Kenneth Lonergan

There are a lot of elements when you're writing, or when I'm writing, that are sitting in the back of your mind. I try to let them stay there, because they find their way in more naturally that way.

- Kenneth Lonergan

I still haven't quite caught on to the idea of writing without dialogue. I like writing dialogue, and there's nothing wrong with dialogue in movies.

- Kenneth Lonergan

You're thinking about the physical consequences about what you're writing if you're going to direct it. If you're not going to direct it, then it's somebody else's problem, and they'll solve it.

- Kenneth Lonergan

I've done a lot of assignment work in my life, and the only way you can do it is to make it your own as quickly as possible, and then you give it back.

- Kenneth Lonergan

If you're going to make a statement, I think you should write it in prose and make a statement. If you have characters who are mouthpieces for a point of view, then you have to be very clever about disguising it.

- Kenneth Lonergan

I personally don't need to see a story about a person that starts up miserable and ends up worse.

- Kenneth Lonergan

I'm always really interested in different environments and how they affect people's lives and what it would be like to live somewhere else.

- Kenneth Lonergan

Filmmaking, like any other art, is a very profound means of human communication; beyond the professional pleasure of succeeding or the pain of failing, you do want your film to be seen, to communicate itself to other people.

- Kenneth Lonergan

It's not a character flaw to become an adult.

- Kenneth Lonergan